Bad Boy Vs Nice Man - Does Interest Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Versus A Nice Guy?

Well, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is necessarily true.

At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.

I think there are other personality dimensions involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.

Bad boys tend to be less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I think that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little aloof, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am interested in them or just being polite.

That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who praise them.

Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an entertaining conversation with them without mentioning a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also remember that women have different personalities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well choose a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see no matter what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet people like that. So irrespective of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and unique to the women you encounter and you will be successful.

One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are unexciting there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the party.

The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, try to act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will notice that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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